First, make time for her.
You are probably used to having time for yourself but now you must make
time for her. I mean this in the sense of comfortable routines you
share together like a morning cup of coffee. I
also mean it in the sense of sacrifice. Put down the book. Look at
her. Listen to her. You will need to do this more often than you can
imagine.
Second, find mentors.
Choose from among us men who will challenge you, encourage you, and
admonish you. Do not share your frustrations with your friends. Chose
rather one or two men who will keep your confidence and carry your
burdens, and reminding you of your
obligations. You will need this. We all do.
And finally, honor her.
Your affection for her should be known in all the world. Delight in
her, praise her and thank her. Never belittle her or make fun of her.
The safest place she can be should be by your side. If you cherish her
and sanctify her like this, she will not only love you more, she will
trust you more.
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